With the recent posts of mine about Techie Stuff and all I felt like I made you reader's miss some spicey read about our daily life routine . So here I am with a common topic of our's !!!
The recent tactics of my fellow mates who showed me true colour's by their words of hate got me thinking again about why people today love to hate. It's really unfortunate that we all wish to be loved, yet, some would easily jump to hating on others. If you've been a victim of hate or cyber bullying, this should be inspiration enough for you to tackle those a-holes.
But first, let's understand what builds hate in people. Haters are usually people who are insecure. Know this. It has been established time and again that if people hate on you or criticize you without you having harmed them in any way, they most definitely are jealous of or intimidated by you. And their hate directed towards you is only their defense mechanism. Because they know no better!!!
"I donate $1 to @UNICEF for each hate-filled tweet I get from trolls. Nearly at $1000 in donations. The needy children thank you, haters! 😎"
WOW!!This one is a hell of a way to handle the Haters!!!!
Same as the above , I'm going to share few more Example's below about the super people who reacted to their hater's !!!!
Lynelle Cantwell, a student at Holy Trinity Regional High, discovered a poll that was doing the rounds in her class. It was a poll to know who was the ugliest girl in school was.
Lynelle took to Facebook, head held high, to lash out at the boys behind the poll. And her post got some huge response.
The very recent tweet by cricketer Virat Kohli, in which he defended ex-girlfriend Anushka Sharma, was a fine example of how non-victims too, are standing up against haters and bullies, and supporting those unjustly targeted.
By considering the above Example's and several other experience's I conclude by saying a few stepological points on to how to overcome HATER's as a part of providing a solution :-
Here are some:
Know your opponents' strengths and weaknesses too. Then point them all, and say, "You see, like I just pointed out, you have some strengths and weaknesses too. We all do. So, we're all the same."
Note: This is an updated piece and I am sharing it again, because I stand against cyber bullying and hating. I wish for more people to be inspired to support and defend those who are victimized.
If you know of someone who is a victim of bullying (or any other form of hatred), share this article with them. Also, share your thoughts about hate on social media. You are welcome to leave a comment below !!
This is written from an inspired source just for the readers acknowledgement and I am not responsible for any Legalities.
-Bhaskar
The recent tactics of my fellow mates who showed me true colour's by their words of hate got me thinking again about why people today love to hate. It's really unfortunate that we all wish to be loved, yet, some would easily jump to hating on others. If you've been a victim of hate or cyber bullying, this should be inspiration enough for you to tackle those a-holes.
But first, let's understand what builds hate in people. Haters are usually people who are insecure. Know this. It has been established time and again that if people hate on you or criticize you without you having harmed them in any way, they most definitely are jealous of or intimidated by you. And their hate directed towards you is only their defense mechanism. Because they know no better!!!
"Not all insecure people are haters, but all haters are insecure people."
~ Jack Schafer, Professor and Author
Remember !! Where there is Hate !! There is a Rumor about you for them to talk behind your back!!
Whether you're a person who actively voices out their opinions or not, as long as you're on social platforms, you've most definitely experienced some kind of hatred - directed towards you or one of your social connections. But, it's amazing how people have started taking hate on social media, turning it into something nicer, and throwing it back into the digital universe. Earlier last year, Australian academic, Susan Carland decided to donate $1 to UNICEF for every hate tweet she received.
WOW!!This one is a hell of a way to handle the Haters!!!!
Same as the above , I'm going to share few more Example's below about the super people who reacted to their hater's !!!!
Lynelle Cantwell, a student at Holy Trinity Regional High, discovered a poll that was doing the rounds in her class. It was a poll to know who was the ugliest girl in school was.
By considering the above Example's and several other experience's I conclude by saying a few stepological points on to how to overcome HATER's as a part of providing a solution :-
Here are some:
1) Be calm, and don't react. Because that's exactly what insecure people look for - attention and knowing you got affected by their snarky remarks, will make them feel like they have some sort of power on you.
2) But if you must, respond - instead of giving into stimuli, take a couple of milliseconds, and come up with a quip instead to tell them off.
3) Don't take what they say, personally. Remember, it's not you, it's them.
4) Know your own strengths (and weaknesses), and concentrate on those (the strengths, of course) instead.
Know your opponents' strengths and weaknesses too. Then point them all, and say, "You see, like I just pointed out, you have some strengths and weaknesses too. We all do. So, we're all the same."
Note: This is an updated piece and I am sharing it again, because I stand against cyber bullying and hating. I wish for more people to be inspired to support and defend those who are victimized.
If you know of someone who is a victim of bullying (or any other form of hatred), share this article with them. Also, share your thoughts about hate on social media. You are welcome to leave a comment below !!
This is written from an inspired source just for the readers acknowledgement and I am not responsible for any Legalities.
-Bhaskar
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